Of Socks and Men

Laundry, duck hunting/firefighting absent husband, three little girls and no dogs in sight Slightly neurotic and completely at my witts end--- wife, mother, dreamer lost in her 30-somethings

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I'm a 35-year-old mother of three who has a million dreams to dream -- and three children to carry out the ones she doesn't get around to. My husband is a firefighter and an obsessed duck hunter, so I'm pretty much a single mother, trying to juggle my life around duck season and fire season.

Thursday, June 22, 2006

Why Barbie Threw a Spoon at Ken

I've played the role of empty-headed
blow-up Barbie doll--
you know, the one with the big hair
yellowed wig,
skinny waist and pink plastic
teddy,
So, for God's sake,
don't look at me with those damned gooey-eyes.
It won't work.
I'm a new woman now,
and I don't want to play this game
anymore.
We are no longer
the Denny's pair of hot fudge
sundae* sharers.
I've found my own dish,
my own fork,
and quite frankly,
I can feed myself.

*previously Sunday sharers, but I changed it because I didn't think it worked

18 Comments:

Blogger Babaloo said...

That must be some dish to have moved away from the hot fudge sundae...even if you were sharing. I'm kiddding... I get it. You moved into your own skin. Nice. Very strong.

9:55 AM  
Blogger socialworker/frustrated mom said...

Wooooooooooo you go girl! Good for you. Love the title and post.

10:16 AM  
Blogger David_on_the_Lake said...

Very edgy..and real...
I liked the way it moved.
As for the content..I wont touch it.
:-)

11:12 AM  
Blogger Genendy said...

lqi - (laughing quietly inside - the overuse of lol annoys me.) This was a great one - it brought a smile to my face, and I love the title. :)

11:46 AM  
Blogger Bonnie B said...

babaloo-- I think it was tiramisu because i like to hang out at coffee shops and compare brilliance (I'm kidding. I used to hang out at coffee shops. now i hang out at the park). But yes, my new skin fits nicely.

Social worker-- I'm glad you liked the title. You go too!!!!

david-- what's not to touch?

genedy-- glad it made you smile. I think you gave me the idea on your blog.

1:52 PM  
Blogger Ashley Lasbury said...

Whoaaa! You poem is very similar to my mantra when my ex-hubby moved out. I am woman hear me....try to roar? After two years, I am finally roaring loudly.

That was great!

3:32 PM  
Blogger Bonnie B said...

ashley-- if you lived nearby we could practice roaring together-- the calling of the lioness-- watch out world here we come

3:44 PM  
Blogger Bonnie B said...

Here is a question for who ever cares to answer: should i leave it as hot fudge Sunday sharers or make it hot fudge sundae sharers?
This has been bugging me all day.

3:58 PM  
Blogger Ashley Lasbury said...

My daughter, the poet, tells me that it should be sundae not Sunday. And if you know what's good for you, you don't mess with a pubescent 13 year old girl.

4:26 PM  
Blogger Bonnie B said...

I chose Sunday to be more philosophical-- to give it an additional meaning so to speak, but I'm not sure. I am leaning toward changing it. I'm not sure many people get what I mean by Hot Fudge Sunday sharers, so why confuse people.

5:24 PM  
Blogger Genendy said...

Really? Being the inspiration for one of your poems is a true honor.

I was also wondering about the Sunday thing...thought you just spelled it wrong :) But to be honest, I didn't get what you meant by hot fudge sunday sharers, care to explain?

7:23 PM  
Blogger Bonnie B said...

genendy-- it's complicated and I'm not quite sure how to explain it without writing a disertation-- which I think in my heart means it was a bad idea. It reminds me of how Joyce practically wrote in code in Finnegan's Wake, and so on that note, I'll change it in my portfolio.
If you break the words apart and think of what each word means by itself, you might get a hint of what I tried to do-- unsucessfully-- No one should ever have to do that to understand something-=- and so it is sundae. you could email me and I'll tell you the story. bsitter2@hotmail.com

7:31 PM  
Blogger Pollyanna said...

I like sundae too...because well I don't like to think too hard. :)

8:24 PM  
Blogger Bonnie B said...

jodi-- Yes, I agree too. It's simple with a sundae-- bizarre with a Sunday.

8:29 PM  
Blogger socialworker/frustrated mom said...

No need to change the name. Stop doubting yourself!:)

6:53 AM  
Blogger Bonnie B said...

social worker-- I am the queen of self doubt-- I'm working on it. I promise. It's just that for me when it comes to poetry, I know my choices are not always right-- I welcome criticism so I can grow as a writer. The line kind of bugged me and i didn't go with my instinct that said "people are going to think you don't know how to spell sundae because the subtext is so unclear." It was a bad choice and that is why I changed it.
But you are so right, I do doubt myself way too much.

9:59 AM  
Blogger socialworker/frustrated mom said...

bonnie I too am the queen of doubt so we shall work on it together as buddies:).

10:47 AM  
Blogger Bonnie B said...

that sounds like a master plan, but will we doubt what we say to each other-- I am not sure if I said that right-- I hope you can hear me laughing

10:50 AM  

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